It takes self-respect and selflove to feel and communicate ‘ borders’. Personal bounderies. It takes even more guts to communicate this to someone you ‘ like/love/are in love with’. It takes first selflove to feel you are A King or a Queen- And it takes a King to stand next to me. Because I am a Queen.
I see many attractive, goodlooking girls Doing all their best to get ‘ attention’. That is great. I get sometimes a little insecure too. Nice profile picture, sexy, it takes just a weak man , maybe with some drugs and alcohol in a discotheque to ‘ do these girls’. The are open for it, they are all over the internet. Also females are easy to get a handsome, maybe even rich goodlooking man for a night in their bed. It is a piece of cake actually.
It takes a King, who is strong enough to choose for you. And in first place, for himself. Friend, you can ‘ like’ other woman, you can look at them. They are all over the place.But none of them is like me.
This Queen wants a King next to her. I do not settle for less. Because I know who I am, and what I am able to give and share on every level. It takes more then a great body (which I have in fact a great mind, soul, heart. Even all of that will not give this to you: The King meant for you, will open His heart for you. That is soul-communication- Heartcommunication.
You are free to go
Lie, cheat, sex, ‘like’, dance with other woman. Flirt with them, date with them. A Queen will throw them out of the house with their suitcase. My border has always been very clear: If you lie, cheat, or touch another woman I never want to have you near me again’. Goodluck , enjoy the other woman.- It just means you are not the King I was looking for. It takes a queen to be with your entire life. It takes a god to be near a godess. A drunk night with some drugs, or a cheap sex-adventure does not compete with sharing your life with a great woman. The choice, and strength is up to the ‘ man’. And this is what makes him the King. His choice to be with you, and to stick around. On the same page here. The same level of understanding. Some exes told me even after 10 years ‘it is over’, they still regret the seperation and their behaviour. That I was the best woman they ever had. I told them in the moment ‘ after ten years you have screwed all other woman and come to the conclusion no one was like me’. They did. Never ever let anyone allow to step over your borders. Know you deserve the best you can get, true loyalty and do not ever go UNDER this standard. And if they do. The door is about 2 meters from here, please close it.
Do not ever regret this…The right person was meant to stay
Because only the King or Queen meant for you, will act like this naturally. Freedom is an individual right. And being with you has to come in natural freedom. Loyalty should be natural also. If not, please go away. Living together in freedom should be natural, from within the heart. Even if your ego is scared, you will try to master the fear to be with her…..Know that the EGO will first be a monster when true love shows in your life. You will get sick, mean, awfull, narsistic, egodriven, sad, hatefull…. The ego will go crazy if a real lover comes near you…. You have to beat the dragon. You have to beat the monster. How? By loving her. By seeing her. By ringing her doorbell. By beating the m*thef*cker to go see her, even how scared you are and even how much the ego is making you hatefull and sick. The ego goes ‘ insane’ when the love of your life shows up. This is the first reaction when they see light. Like dracula sees the light: He will ‘ weep’, he will ‘ melt’. Light will scare the shit out of the ego. Love is light. True love is light. The ego lives and grows on addictions, hate, and girls/boys who will never stay. It will be in ‘ rest’ with all things that are not ‘ true love’. It suits for the unreal job, the unreal house, the addictions, hate, and the girls previous in your life that were not to stay. It goes insane in your mind, tries to make you hatefull, let you use addictions, tries to back her off: First insanity is previous to real love. You can beat the monster by stepping back into love and just grab your entire guts together and GO see her/him. This is how you will be your own King/Queen. Crossing the borders of ego, is by stepping into love. That is when you are together, or send her/him light. Everytime ego tries to take over.
Feel, know, show you are a Queen. In fact, a true King knows it. You do not need to tell him. He just knows.
Written and source: by Leda