About narcisissts and how to recognize and deal with them
You didn’t lose the love of your life you lost someone who was draining the life out of you. Narcissists aren’t soulmates; they’re predators, and understanding that is a key part of your healing. The person you saw at the end? That’s who they really are.The charm and charisma were just a mask, hiding their real nature. They pulled you in with lies, fake emotions, and a carefully crafted performance. But beneath it all, they were feeding off your energy, breaking down your self worth, and slowly erasing who you were.What you went through wasn’t love; it was a toxic loop where every day felt like survival. The gaslighting, manipulation, and constant criticism were about control, not affection. Their cheating, deceit, and lack of empathy weren’t accidents, they were calculated moves to exploit your trust and vulnerabilities.You didn’t lose a soulmate, you escaped a nightmare. Breaking out of that cycle of abuse takes serious strength. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they just act like it to get what they want.To heal, you’ve got to accept the truth: it wasn’t love, it was manipulation. You were used as a tool, a source of supply for their ego. But now you’re free to rediscover yourself, find real love, and live a life that’s true and meaningful.You deserve real love and connection that’s honest and healthy. You deserve to be valued, respected, understood and seen for who you truly are. Don’t settle for less. You are worthy of love, and it will come when you least expect it.Namaste